Section 2: Five Developmental Theories

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In this section, you will learn to:

  • Use concepts from personality and lifespan development theories to describe and analyse aspects of individual development and behaviour.
  • Evaluate potential applications of personality and lifespan development theories in the counselling process.
  • Undertake case study analysis drawing on a range of personality and human development theories.
  • Draw on a range of theories to assist clients in understanding personal history and address challenges.

Supplementary materials relevant to this section:

  • Reading F: Eriksonian Personality Research
  • Reading G: Emotions, Attachment, and Social Relationships
  • Reading H: Piaget’s Theory
Sub Topics

Developmental theories provide counsellors with a framework to explore and understand clients’ development, behaviour, and presenting issues. However, as each theory has its strengths and weaknesses, counsellors need to learn to evaluate theories critically and to select and use appropriate ones for particular purposes.

In this section, you will learn about four influential developmental theories that significantly contributed to the contemporary understanding of human development. You will notice that these theories differ in their approach to understanding development. While Freud’s and Erikson’s theories explore critical developmental changes throughout the lifespan, for example, Bowlby’s focuses on the interpersonal influence in development; Piaget’s specifically addresses cognitive development; and Maslow’s hierarchy of needs emphasises motivation and capacity for change. Each theory varies in its ideas about human nature and development and offers a different perspective on why people develop and behave as they do. We will begin with Freud’s psychoanalytic theory.

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Developed by Sigmund Freud in the early 20th century, the psychoanalytic theory was one of the earliest attempts to systematically describe, explain, and predict human behaviour and development. The psychoanalytic approach places great emphasis on “the importance of unconscious motivations, emotional conflicts and early experiences for shaping personality and behaviours” (Sigelman, De George, Cunial, & Rider, 2019, p. 54). Freud believed that a person’s behaviours are largely driven by unconscious biological drives and that personality is likely to have formed in the early years, influenced by experiences in the family. He believed that successful integration between the three parts of self over five stages of development was the key to healthy development (Berk, 2014; Steinberg, Bornstein, Vandell, & Rook, 2011).

Structural Model of Personality

These three key components are the id, ego and superego. Freud believed that each had its own functions and ways of operating and that their conflicts and interactions drove many aspects of personality and behaviour.

“The id, the largest portion of the mind, is the source of basic biological needs and desires.

The ego, the conscious, rational part of personality, emerges in early infancy to redirect the id’s impulses so they are discharged on appropriate objects at acceptable places and times.

Between 3 and 6 years of age, the superego, or conscience, develops as parents insist that children conform to the values of society. Now the ego faces the increasingly complex task of reconciling the demands of the id, the external world, and conscience (Freud, 1923/1974). For example, when the id impulse to grab an attractive toy from a playmate confronts the superego’s warning that such behaviour is wrong, the ego must mediate between these two forces, deciding which will win the inner struggle or, alternatively, work out a compromise, such as asking for a turn with the toy. According to Freud, the relations established among the id, ego, and superego during the preschool years determine the individual’s basic personality.”

Berk, 2014, p. 15

A useful way to remember these components is to use the analogy of child, adult, and parent:

Child = ld Adult = Ego Parent = Superego
  • Emotions, moods, drives, playfulness, and misbehaving are id features.
  • Logic, planning, problem-solving, peace- keeping, and umpiring are ego features.
  • Moralising, criticising, bossing, blaming, and punishing are superego features.

In popular usage, the word ‘ego’ is usually used in a very different manner, including describing those characteristics Freud would have associated with the id. If, for example, a young man is boasting and showing off, then someone might say, “Doesn’t he have a big ego!”

From the psychoanalytic perspective, the dynamic between id, ego, and superego provides a way to understand individual personality differences and psychological problems (Sigelman et al., 2019). Freud thought that these three components are inevitably in conflict and that our development depends on our ability to strengthen the ego (adult), the role of which is to resolve the conflict between the id (child) and (superego) parent.

"In the mature healthy personality, a dynamic balance operates: the id communicates its basic needs, the ego restrains the impulsive id long enough to find realistic ways to satisfy these needs, and the superego decides whether the ego’s problem-solving strategies are morally acceptable… Psychological problems often arise if there is an imbalance in the three parts of the personality. For example, a person with an antisocial personality who routinely lies and cheats may have a strong id but a weak superego, whereas a married woman who cannot undress in front of her husband may have an overly strong superego."
Sigelman et al., 2019, pp. 55-56

Freud, however, believed that people are generally not usually aware of the working of these components or of their interactions, as they happen mainly in our ‘unconscious’ minds.

Levels of Awareness

Freud proposed three levels of awareness – conscious, preconscious, and unconscious – and that our unconscious minds are responsible for much of our behaviour.

Weiten, 2017

Level Definition Examples
Conscious What you are aware of at a particular point in time You may be aware of the content you are reading and that your eyes are getting tired
Preconscious Material that is just beneath the surface of awareness that can be easily retrieved Your middle name; what you had for supper last night; an argument you had with a friend yesterday
Unconscious Thoughts, memories and desires that are well below the surface of conscious awareness but that nonetheless exert great influence on behaviour Hidden feelings of hostility toward a parent; repressed sexual desires

Adapted from Weiten, 2017, p. 380

The iceberg analogy is commonly used to explain Freud’s conceptualisation of the mind. Imagine that your mind is an iceberg like the one in the following figure:

iceberg analogy

Weiten, 2017, p. 384

The part of the iceberg that is visible from the outside is the conscious mind; the preconscious mind is just beneath the surface of the water, and the unconscious mind is a big part of its mass hidden well below the water. According to Freud, id is completely unconscious, but ego and superego can operate at all three levels of consciousness (Weiten, 2017). Now, let’s look at an example of how Freud’s model of personality and level of consciousness can be applied to an individual in need of counselling.

Case Study

Talib is a young businessman who has been feeling restless and irritable lately (id). He has been driving his sports BMW aggressively and running red lights (id) to the extent that his girlfriend, Raniyah, refuses to travel with him. Talib’s mother, siblings, and girlfriend have been asking him to see a counsellor. Finally he becomes aware that he is restless (conscious), but he is unsure about what is driving this restlessness (preconscious).

Before phoning the counsellor, Talib debates the issue inside his head. Part of him thinks that he should just grow-up, contain himself, get on with running his business, and force himself to be polite to people (superego). But another part of him thinks differently. This part of him can recall (preconscious) the two modules of psychology he studied at university during his business degree. He remembers reading that people lose their clear rational thinking ability when they are stressed and he realises (ego) that something is stressing him. He concludes that his ability to make rational decisions on his own is impaired. He decides he needs some expert help and rings the counsellor (ego).

Whilst Freud believed that conflicts between the id, ego, and superego occur almost entirely in our unconscious minds, they often cause us anxiety, which is an unpleasant feeling of dread that emerges to the surface of consciousness (Corey, 2017). To avoid becoming overwhelmed by this unpleasant anxiety, Freud suggested that we unconsciously engage in various defence mechanisms to manage it.

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Defence Mechanisms

Defence mechanisms are ego-based strategies that we use in response to the unpleasant emotions we experience, such as anxiety. According to Corey (2017), defence mechanisms have two common features: first, these mechanisms help us feel better by denying or distorting reality; second, they function on an unconscious level. Despite this, the use of defence mechanisms is viewed as normal, adaptive behaviour (rather than being pathological), so long as they do not become a way of living that avoids reality. Types of defence mechanisms Freud proposed include:

Defence Description
Repression Threatening or painful thoughts and feelings are excluded from conscious awareness (e.g., a survivor of a serious car accident has no recollection of the details of the accident).
Denial “Closing one’s eyes” to the existence of a threatening aspect of reality (e.g., dismissing a potentially serious physical symptom as being unimportant).
Reaction formation Actively expressing the opposite impulse when confronted with a threatening impulse (e.g., a mother who had an unwanted pregnancy became overprotective of the child later on).
Projection Attributing to others one’s own unacceptable desires and impulses (e.g., the idea of hating someone may not be acceptable to your superego. However, you can solve the conflict by believing that they hate you).
Displacement Directing energy toward another object or person when the original object or person is inaccessible (e.g., being yelled at by your boss, then coming home and taking it out on your partner).
Rationalisation Manufacturing ‘good’ reasons to explain away a bruised ego (e.g., justify cheating on your taxes by convincing yourself that everyone does it, so it’s not really cheating).
Sublimation Diverting sexual or aggressive energy into other channels (e.g., unleashing pent-up aggression by playing field hockey or football).
Regression Going back to an earlier phase of development when there were fewer demands by reverting to immature patterns of behaviour (e.g., children who are frightened in school may engage in infantile behaviour such as weeping, excessive dependence, thumb-sucking, hiding, or clinging to the teacher).
Introjection Taking in and ‘swallowing’ the values and standards of others (e.g., hostages suffering from Stockholm syndrome might identify with their captors’ values and behaviours).
Identification Identifying with successful causes, organisations, or people in the hope that you will be perceived as worthwhile (e.g., a person who feels inferior person joining a social club to boost their self-esteem).
Compensation Masking perceived weaknesses or developing certain positive traits to make up for limitations.

Adapted from Bornstein, 2020; Corey, 2017, pp. 62-63

Reflect

Can you recall using any of these defence mechanisms during times of difficulty or stress?

Do you agree that they are normal, adaptive response?

What might be the consequences if a person continuously uses defence mechanisms?

You may recall using some of the defence mechanisms in your personal experience, despite being unaware of this at the time. Remember that Freud suggested we engage in these mechanisms unconsciously to protect ourselves from uncomfortable or distressing thoughts and emotions, but we can become aware of our tendency to use them when we pay conscious attention.

Although defence mechanisms may offer protection by reducing anxiety, overreliance on them may result in problems with distortion of reality and prevent people from moving forward and making changes in their lives. You will learn more about how counsellors can help clients to develop insights into their use of defence mechanisms later in this section.

It is important to note, however, that many aspects of Freud’s theory, including some of the details of unconscious processes and motivations that he describes, have been discredited and that others are without evidence to support them.

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Stages of Psychosexual Development

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Freud’s theory of psychosexual development describes four developmental stages and a latency (inactive) period. Freud believed that progress through these stages was driven by biological maturation (i.e., the unfolding of the genetic blueprint) in combination with environmental influences. This process forces individuals to face key tasks inherent to each stage. At each psychosexual stage, the id’s impulses come into conflict with social demands.

Harsh child-rearing methods were theorised as heightening this conflict and the child’s anxiety, leading to fixations or complexes (i.e., an unresolved unconscious conflict; Sommers-Flanagan & Sommers-Flanagan, 2015).

However, while it is important that you are familiar with Freud’s ideas, due to their influence, it is also important that you know that they are largely considered outdated and that his theory of psychosexual development is unlikely to be accurate. For example, the psychosexual theory has not been supported by research and is very unlikely to be accurate.

The stages of development that Freud proposed are outlined in the following table. Freud believed it was a parents’ job to create an appropriate balance between too little or too much gratification of each impulse at each stage and that creating an appropriate balance would result in well-adjusted adults (Berk, 2014).

Psychosexual stage Description
Oral
(Birth – 1 year)
The new ego directs the baby’s sucking activities towards the breast or bottle. If oral needs are not met appropriately, the individual may develop such habits as thumb sucking, fingernail biting, overeating, or smoking.
Anal
(1 – 3 years)
Toddlers and preschoolers enjoy holding and releasing urine and faeces. If parents toilet train before their children are ready or make too few demands, conflicts about anal control may appear in the form of extreme orderliness or disorder.
Phallic (3 – 6 years) As preschoolers take pleasure in genital stimulation, Freud’s Oedipus conflict for boys and Electra conflict for girls arise: children feel a sexual desire for the other-sex parent. To avoid punishment, they give up this desire and adopt the same-sex parent’s characteristics and values. As a result, the superego is formed, and children feel guilty when they violate its standards.
Latency
(6 – 11 years)
Sexual instincts die down, and the superego strengthens as the child acquires new social values from adults and same-sex peers.
Genital (Adolescence) With puberty, sexual impulses reappear. Successful development during earlier stages leads to marriage, mature sexuality, and child-rearing.

Adapted from Berk, 2014, p. 16

Freud also suggested that unresolved issues from the three early psychosexual stages often brought people to counselling:

  • Oral stage, which deals with the inability to trust oneself and others, resulting in fear of loving and forming close relationships and low self-esteem.
  • Anal stage, which deals with the inability to recognise and express anger, leading to the denial of one’s own power as a person and the lack of a sense of autonomy.
  • Phallic stage, which deals with the inability to fully accept one’s sexuality and sexual feelings, and also to difficulty in accepting oneself as a man or woman.

According to the Freudian psychoanalytic view, these three areas of personal and social development – love and trust, dealing with negative feelings, and developing a positive acceptance of sexuality – are grounded in the first 6 years of life. This period is the foundation on which later personality development is built. When a child’s needs are not adequately met during these stages of development, an individual may become fixated at that stage and behave in psychologically immature ways later on in life.

Adapted from Corey, 2017, pp. 63-64

From this perspective, behaviours such as smoking and overeating could be traced back to the deprivation of the individual’s needs in the oral stage (Hoffnung et al., 2016). Over-indulgence during the oral stage would also result in over-dependence on others as an adult.

Freud believed that personality is determined in these early years of life, as the impacts of unfavourable experiences are often revealed in adult personality traits (Sigelman et al., 2019). Deprivation of needs at the oral stage, for example, could result in the individual having the urge to manipulate others to fulfil their needs later in life. Being overly influenced by experience in a particular stage or being ‘stuck’ in that stage is known as fixation (Hoffnung et al.).

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Take a moment to reflect upon your feelings about psychoanalytic theory. Do you think it still has relevance in today’s society? Why or why not?

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Contributions and Limitations in Counselling

Freud’s psychoanalytical approach was one of the first to recognise the importance of early development and suggests that our earlier life experiences can have long-term impacts:

“One of the reasons Freud is considered the first developmental psychologist is because he viewed childhood and adolescence as critical developmental stages in a person’s life. He pointed out that the distinct patterns, challenges, and problems commonly manifested at these developmental stages have a lasting, although generally unconscious, impact throughout the rest of life.”
Ivey, D’Andrea & Ivey, 2012, p. 182

This implies that clients’ presenting issues might be related to their experiences in their early years. Whilst this is not suggesting that counsellors should encourage clients to dwell in the past, it is often useful for counsellors to help clients explore their personal history to gain a deeper understanding of the roots of their presenting issues.

Another useful contribution of psychoanalytic theory is its focus on the concept of the unconscious (Sigelman & Rider, 2018). The initial presentation of an issue or concern in counselling does not always represent the essential issue the client is struggling with. However, it is important to remember it is not always helpful to directly identify or challenge defences or try to highlight things that clients are unconscious of. These can serve important protective functions. In addition, it is difficult to know for certain if people are using defence mechanisms or not (and some defence mechanisms are not supported by evidence).

Instead of taking a Freudian approach to defence mechanisms, it may be more useful to consider clients – and counsellors, for that matter – as not being aware of everything they are experiencing and as potentially using mental strategies (i.e., defence mechanisms) in some circumstances. As such, it can be useful to adopt a tentative, questioning stance when it comes to things that clients may not be aware of and when challenging possible distortions in the client’s perspective. It is then up to the client to decide whether they are ready to engage with what might be beyond their current awareness. The counsellor can also help clients develop healthier strategies to deal with underlying issues. However, counsellors also need to be aware that facilitating the recognition of unconscious thoughts or emotions when the client is not ready is potentially harmful, so a great deal of care in challenging is required.

In general, Freud’s psychoanalytic theory is considered outdated, and few counsellors directly apply it to client work. His theory has been criticised for overemphasising sexual drives and limited application to different cultures (Hoffnung et al., 2016). Moreover, his theory focusses predominantly on internal, psychological forces as the agents driving development, which are vague and difficult or impossible to directly observe or study (Sigelman & Rider, 2018). The psychoanalytic approach has largely been put aside for more modern theories that are more testable and precise, have different foci, and recognise a broader range of influences. Nevertheless, Freud’s theory has had great influence over later approaches in understanding personality and behaviours in the counselling field. In addition, his recognition of unconscious thoughts and feelings and that early experience can have an ongoing influence remains important.

Freud’s 5 Stages of Psychosexual Development

Freud’s theory of psychosexual development claims that as we grow up, we pass through five critical phases which are defined by our sexual drive, also called libido, concentrating on specific erogenous zones.

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Case Study

Jemima attends counselling as she is distressed about her husband’s behaviour. From what Jemima has told him, Khai (her counsellor) strongly suspects that Jemima’s husband is having an extramarital affair. Jemima, however, seems to have an excuse or rationalisation for each suspect behaviour. Khai thinks that if he directly points out the inconsistencies in her husband’s stories, Jemima may perceive this as an attempt to convince her to address the situation or perhaps leave her husband, or that she may even be harmed by being pressured to recognise something she may not be ready to accept.

Khai decides instead to help Jemima come to her own understanding of her situation and decisions about what she wants to do. He focusses their discussion on the anxiety that Jemima is experiencing in response to her husband’s behaviour, and over time Jemima comes to realise that there are inconsistencies in what he tells her. Eventually, Jemima herself realises that her husband is probably having an affair, but she decides not to confront her husband or leave him as she doesn’t want to risk breaking up the family at this point.

Khai acknowledges that Jemima has made an informed decision based on what she thinks is best for her and her family. Khai continues to work with Jemima and offers to give her a referral to relationship counselling if she decides that she would like to arrange this at a future point.

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Erikson expanded on Freud’s psychosexual stages and proposed eight psychosocial stages, each with a crisis each person must navigate in order to develop a healthy personality (Sigelman et al., 2019). Unlike Freud, who focused on internal, biological drives, Erikson viewed personality development as a ‘psychosocial’ process. He believed that psychological and social factors (such as family, friends, relationships, work, culture, and so on) influenced personality, behaviour, and development. Erikson also viewed development as a life-long process. Therefore, he could be considered the first true lifespan development theorist. Erikson believed that developmental changes were driven by the following:

  • The individual’s biological and physical strengths and limitations.
  • The person’s unique life circumstances and developmental history, including early family experiences and degree of success in resolving earlier developmental crises.
  • The particular social, cultural and historical forces at work during the individual’s lifetime (e.g., racial prejudice, poverty, rapid technological change or war).
Hoffnung et al., 2016, p. 40

These eight psychosocial stages and their crises are shown in the following table.

Psychosocial stage Approximate age range Description
Trust versus mistrust Birth – 1 year Infants must learn to trust their caregivers to meet their needs. Responsive parenting is critical.
Autonomy versus shame and doubt 1 – 3 years Children must learn to be autonomous – to assert their wills and do things for themselves – or they will doubt their abilities.
Initiative versus guilt 3 – 6 years Preschoolers develop initiative by devising and carrying out bold plans, but they must learn not to impinge on the rights of others.
Industry versus inferiority 6 – 12 years Children must master important social and academic skills and keep up with their peers; otherwise, they will feel inferior.
Identity versus role confusion 12 – 20 years (adolescence) Adolescents ask who they are and must establish social and vocational identities; otherwise, they will remain confused about the roles they should play as adults.
Intimacy versus isolation 20 – 40 years (early adulthood) Young adults seek to form a shared identity with another person but may fear intimacy and experience loneliness and isolation.
Generativity versus stagnation 40 – 65 years (middle adulthood) Middle-aged adults must feel that they are producing something that will outlive them, either as parents or as workers; otherwise, they will become stagnant and self-centered.
Integrity versus despair 65 years and older Older adults must come to view their lives as meaningful to face death without worries and regrets.

Adapted from Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 57

8 Stages of Development by Erik Erikson

The following video describes Erik Erikson's eight stages of psychosocial development.

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According to Erikson, if individuals successfully resolve the developmental crisis at each stage, they will likely develop a “fully functioning personality” (Hoffnung et al., 2016, p. 40). They establish trust in others, a sense of identity, intimate relationships, and a desire to help the next generation prepare for the future. Failure to successfully resolve a crisis can result not only in difficulties related to that particular stage but also in later stages (Sigelman et al., 2019). A person who is experiencing issues with intimacy, for example, may have had earlier issues with trust; a problem in identity may have its roots in unresolved autonomy and initiative crises.

Erikson put a great deal of emphasis on adolescence, as he believed that the task of developing a strong sense of identity (identity vs role confusion) was dependent on early experiences and continued through adulthood (Hoffnung et al., 2016). Adolescents are exposed to many influences and possible options, particularly as they become more independent. This can result in confusion about who they are and what they want. If adolescents can successfully resolve this conflict by exploring their own values and goals, they will develop a strong and stable sense of self. However, they may develop an uncertain and fragile sense of self if they cannot resolve the developmental crisis.

For example, an adolescent who grows up in a restrictive, overly protective family and has not successfully explored or resolved the demands of society may be left with a lingering conflict and uncertainty about their own identity and place in the world. They may grow into an adult who relies very heavily on what others tell them to do rather than being able to balance social demands with their own psychological needs. In fact, they may struggle with an overall sense of who they are or what they want.

Another important stage occurs in midlife, a time when people are likely to experience significant events such as job changes, parental deaths, relationship breakdowns, and so on. According to Erikson, the main developmental task at this point is to develop generativity through activities that involve generating or producing for the welfare of future generations (Sigelman et al., 2019). Failure to complete this developmental task may lead to stagnation – a feeling that one has not accomplished anything meaningful in life.

Erikson believed that the ability to achieve generativity depended on the successful resolution of earlier stages of development, most importantly the identity stage (Sigelman et al.). So Erikson might have predicted the adolescent previously described would have trouble navigating this stage, having failed to resolve the identity versus role confusion crisis.

Contributions And Limitations in Counselling

A major strength of Erikson’s theory is that it extends across the lifespan and offers a more holistic view of development than Freud’s (Marcia & Josselson, 2013). As such, Erikson’s psychosocial stages can be useful in the helping professions, including counselling.

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Reading F: Eriksonian Personality Research outlines Erikson’s theory in the psychotherapy context. The reading also includes three case studies demonstrating the importance of a developmental approach to working with clients.

What Erikson’s theory provides is a developmental overview, a descriptive language for where the individual stands currently within a psychosocial developmental context, where he/she might have gotten ‘stuck’ in the past, and where she/he is heading.
Marcia & Josselson, 2013, p. 628

Erikson’s psychosocial stages can help counsellors consider the key developmental challenges that clients might face in particular life stages and whether previous unresolved developmental tasks could be having an influence. Difficulties that clients experience can be viewed in relation to ‘blockages’ in psychosocial growth and difficulties negotiating developmental tasks.

More importantly, Erikson believed that poorly resolved crises could be resolved in later stages (Hoffnung et al., 2016). To a larger extent, Erikson viewed these crises as opposing possibilities, with the choices we make at each stage shaping how our life develops (Corey, 2017). From this perspective, counsellors can help clients resolve unresolved crises (Capuzzi, Stauffer, & O’Neil, 2016). Whilst this can involve exploring the client’s history, the focus of counselling is not on the past issues (which are beyond the client’s control) but on developing skills and strengths for the future.

However, while Erikson’s theory sets out realistic developmental goals, it does not identify interventions that might help achieve them (Marcia & Josselson, 2013). Counsellors, therefore, might use psychosocial theory to help understand client issues, but they need to combine this with appropriate counselling techniques or skills from other approaches tailored to account for the client’s age and psychosocial stage. For example, a client who has not resolved the earlier stage of identity versus role confusion may be supported in establishing their identity by exploring their unique abilities, needs, values and goals. Let’s look at an example of how Erikson’s theory can be applied to counselling.

Case Study

Barbara, a 51-year-old stay-at-home mother of four, attends counselling because she feels frustrated, unappreciated, and bored. The counsellor finds out in the initial session that Barbara’s daughter, the youngest of the four children, has recently moved out to attend university in a different city, which appears to have coincided with an increase in Barbara’s dissatisfaction.

Given her developmental circumstances, Barbara’s counsellor decides to consider Barbara’s case through the lens of psychosocial theory. Using this framework, the counsellor thinks that Barbara is most likely at the generativity vs. stagnation stage.

The counsellor encourages Barbara to talk about her role as a caregiver for four children and how things have changed since her daughter left home. While Barbara has spent her life raising children (i.e., fulfilling the generativity task), she is now potentially experiencing ‘blockage’ at this stage following her youngest leaving home. Barbara may be feeling stagnant and unfulfilled.

The counsellor gently brings this understanding to Barbara’s attention, saying, “As adult children leave home to live independently, it is not unusual for parents to feel this sense of ‘emptiness’. Often this doesn’t last too long – many people at this stage also begin to reassess and re-evaluate their lives – but it can sometimes feel challenging. I wonder whether you were feeling fulfilled, accomplishing something important raising your children, and now that they are independent, you’re at a bit of a loss?”

Barbara agrees. In the following session, the counsellor helps Barbara to explore alternative ways to continue her sense of generativity. Barbara decided to continue in the caregiving role and volunteer at a local respite centre while going to university to study part-time, which she had been interested in doing for years but had put aside to focus on her family.

Guided by Erikson’s theory, the counsellor in the case study explores Barbara’s caregiver role and the changes to help understand the challenges she is facing. This also helps the counsellor normalise Barbara’s experience. (Normalising involves helping clients recognise that an aspect of their experience is shared by others. The counsellor in the case study does this when they say, “it is not unusual …”.) However, the counsellor is careful not to ‘diagnose’ Barbara with the stages and checks in to see whether their understanding of Barbara’s experience is accurate.

An alternative path could have been for the counsellor to help Barbara explore earlier stages, such as identity versus role confusion, as unresolved crises in prior stages could also lead to difficulty in resolving later stages. The counsellor goes on to support Barbara in developing appropriate strategies to help her achieve relevant goals at this stage.

Erikson’s psychosocial theory was not a replacement for Freud’s psychosexual theory but a further development of it. In addition, they are both stage theories – that is, they both posit that people go through set processes in a particular order (Sigelman et al., 2019). They also both believe that failure to progress through a stage effectively causes problems later. Nevertheless, Erikson’s theory differs from Freud’s in at least four ways:

  1. [Erikson] placed less emphasis on sexual urges as the drivers of development and more emphasis on social influences such as peers, teachers, schools and the broader culture, claiming that nature and nurture are equally important.
  2. [Erikson] placed less emphasis on the unconscious, irrational and selfish id and more on the rational ego and its adaptive powers.
  3. [Erikson] held a more positive view of human nature, seeing people as active in their development, largely rational and able to overcome the effects of harmful early experiences.
  4. [Erikson] put more emphasis on development after adolescence.
Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 40

Whilst both Erikson’s and Freud’s theories are useful to a certain extent in describing the development across the lifespan, they are not as useful in helping us understand why and how the development in these stages occurs (Sigelman et al., 2019). Like Freud’s theory, Erikson’s theory is also difficult to test – for instance, it is hard to prove that there are exactly eight stages and that everyone passes through these stages in the same order (Lilienfeld et al., 2019). When applying Erikson’s theory, counsellors must remember that clients may not follow all set stages in the same order or at the same time.

Reflect

Reflect on your own development using Erikson’s psychosocial stages. Which stage do you think you are in? What crisis would Erikson say you are facing? Do you think this theory applies to your particular individual, social, and cultural context?

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mother is holding her newborn baby

Initially developed by Bowlby (and elaborated by Ainsworth), attachment theory suggests that infants have a biological tendency to form an attachment – “a strong affectional tie” – with their parents or caregiver (Sigelman et al., p. 560). The quality of such emotional bonds affects the development of personality and resulting behaviours as the child grows and relates to others.

Bowlby believed that early interactions or patterns of attachment with significant caregivers shaped the individual's expectations about relationships, which have lasting impacts on later interpersonal relationships. For example, if you experienced loving and accepting interactions with your parents as a

young child, you are likely to expect that you are lovable and trust others to care for you in later relationships as well. These expectations guide how you’d behave in these relationships, which affects how others respond to you subsequently.

On the contrary, if you have experienced your parents as harsh and judgemental, you may become self-critical and feel you can never live up to other people’s standards, or believe you will only be loved when you are ‘perfect’. These expectations become a ‘template’ as to how you would relate to others in life.

Bowlby’s attachment theory is based on the following concepts:

  • People are born biologically pre-programmed to form attachments with others because this will help them to survive.
  • Attachment behaviours are designed to ensure closeness and contact with the mother or attachment figure. Crying and distress behaviours are activated when this closeness is threatened, for example, by physical separation from the attachment figure. These are designed to elicit care and responsiveness.
  • When this care and responsiveness is not given or is given inconsistently over an extended period, the child develops maladaptive coping methods, resulting in either avoidant or resistant behaviour. The child also develops a dysfunctional concept of self, as shown in the following diagram:

Child’s Development of Dysfunctional Self-Concept

Adapted from McLeod, 2017

The Attachment Theory: How Childhood Affects Life

The attachment theory argues that a strong emotional and physical bond to one primary caregiver in our first years is critical to our development. If our bonding is strong and we are securely attached, we feel safe exploring the world. If our bond is weak, we feel insecurely attached. We are afraid to leave or explore a rather scary-looking world.

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Attachment Styles and Development

According to Bowlby’s theory, a child’s emotional and behavioural development is related to the way in which they were able to attach to (i.e., form a bond with) their mother or primary caregiver.

Securely attached children develop a positive internal working model of themselves and have mental representations or ‘templates’ of others as being helpful while viewing themselves as worthy of respect. Avoidant children tend to think of themselves as unworthy and unacceptable, while children with an ambivalent/resistant attachment style tend to have a negative self-image and exaggerate their emotional responses as a way to gain attention. These mental representations guide the child’s future social and emotional behaviours and responses to the caregiver and others, as well as their sense of security to explore and experience their surrounding worlds (Capuzzi et al., 2016).

Subsequently, children of insecure attachment styles may not be as willing or socially and emotionally competent as securely attached children to take risks, learn new things and face new challenges. As such, it is considered that their general development is influenced by the type of attachment they experienced with attachment figure(s).

Bowlby’s theory on attachment was later complemented and supplemented by his colleague, Mary Ainsworth, who studied attachment in a systematic and scientific way. In Reading G, you will read about the ‘Strange Situation’ experiment, which was set out to research infants’ reactions toward a stranger and the departure and return of their caregiver (Sigelman & Rider, 2017). Based on the infants’ behaviours and responses, the quality of attachment is categorised into four types – secure, resistant, avoidant, and disorganised – which are believed to influence individuals’ interpersonal behaviours and subsequent development, such as the development of attachment to friends during childhood and adolescence, and to romantic partners later on.

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Reading G: Emotions, Attachment, and Social Relationships provides an introduction of the “Strange Situation” experiment, which was set out to research on infants’ reactions toward a stranger and the departure and return of their caregiver.

The following table outlines examples of adult interpersonal behaviours that may reflect the characteristics of each attachment style. During the counselling process, you may recognise the following characteristics in your clients’ behaviour, both in how they describe their interpersonal relationships outside of counselling sessions and in the therapeutic relationship.

Attachment styles Examples of interpersnal behaviours
Secure
  • Comfortable with emotional attachment and do not experience intimacy as threatening.
  • Able to manage emotions appropriately and rely on emotional support when necessary.
  • Resilient in facing disappointments or setbacks in relationships.
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Resistant
  • Driven by the fear of loss and rejection.
  • Crave frequent reassurance and encouragement, particularly from close relationships.
  • Constantly alert to signs or cues that indicate rejection.
  • Depend on others or external factors for a sense of self-worth.
Avoidant
  • Cope with fear of rejection by avoiding or becoming detached.
  • ‘Switch off’ their emotions and distance themselves from the interpersonal interaction that is perceived as threatening.
  • Feel uncomfortable both relying on others emotionally and having others rely on them.
Disorganised /disoriented
  • Unresolved mindset and emotions about relationships.
  • Crave for security and safety and, at the same time, feel unworthy of love and fear loss and rejection.
  • May exhibit antisocial or negative behavioural patterns.

Contributions And Limitations in Counselling

Attachment theory provides a framework for understanding clients presenting issues and challenges, which could be reflecting ineffective coping strategies or underlying emotional and relational difficulties. Attachment theory highlights that early important relationships with caregivers influence subsequent emotional well-being. Problems in those early relationships and exposure to childhood traumatic experiences may lead to difficulties in a person’s sense of self and emotional regulation, which are important for developing and maintaining later relationships. Relationship quality at each step of development also affects relationship quality at the next step, as illustrated in the following diagram:

good quality of relationship in every developmental stages

Simpson et al., 2007, as cited in Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 571

As such, counsellors can help clients to consider their past relational experiences and how these experiences may have impacted current interpersonal behaviour. This usually involves assessing clients’ relational patterns of significant relationships throughout their lifespan, particularly with their family of origin, peers, and intimate relationships, to gain insight into possible behavioural patterns in relationships (Reeves, 2013). The following questions may be asked once you have built up a sufficient rapport with a client to ascertain whether they may have experienced difficult attachment interactions in early childhood:

  • When you were young, to whom did you turn for comfort and nurturing? Was this a reliable source of comfort?
  • Describe your relationship with your parents and significant childhood caregivers. How did you know you were loved? Did you feel safe, physically and emotionally? How was conflict or disappointment handled? How was it resolved? Was there abuse or trauma?
  • Describe significant love relationships in your adulthood. Did you feel safe, cared for, and nurtured? Were there significant betrayals or other trauma?
  • Describe the early phases of your relationship, when you felt more connected to your partner. How accessible were each of you? How did you show responsiveness? How did you engage one another? (Furrow, Ruderman, & Woolley, 2011)
Gehart, 2014, p. 456

Attachment theory is often used to conceptualise a client’s relationship difficulties and help the client understand behaviours that may lead to dysfunctional interpersonal relationships – outside of counselling sessions and in the therapeutic relationship. Remember that clients are likely to exhibit similar interpersonal behaviours in their relationship with the counsellor, which can impact the counselling process and outcomes. For instance, consider a client who seems extra ‘needy’, wanting to please the counsellor (e.g., agreeing to actions but not following through), and/or is reluctant to finish appointments on time. Counsellors who understand attachment theory may consider these behaviours to reflect an insecure attachment style and help clients recognise the impacts of such behavioural patterns on the counselling relationship and their relationship with others.

Although attachment theory suggests the potential lasting impact of earlier relationships on a person’s development and future relationships, counsellors need to note that change and improvement are possible. Helping clients understand how their past relational patterns may be affecting their behaviours or responses is the first step and can help reduce shame around presenting issues. (Nevertheless, counsellors need to be mindful not to ‘diagnose’ a client of their attachment style, even if they may seem to behave in accordance with insecure or resistant attachment styles). As illustrated in the following case study, counsellors can help clients by providing a secure, safe therapeutic environment and modelling an accepting caring relationship. Counsellors may also support clients in developing coping and emotion regulation skills that will help them build positive relationships with others.

Unlike Freud’s or Erikson’s, Bowlby’s interest was not in the stages of development. He took a specific focus on the interpersonal dynamics of earlier relationships. As such, attachment theory may not have as much to offer in terms of explaining development pathways or understanding stressful transitions in life. While attachment theory helps to bring attention to factors that may affect children's social and emotional well-being, it does not “provide clear directions for practitioners in terms of how and when to address attachment needs” (McLean, 2016).

Because attachment theory focuses primarily on the relationship between infants and their mothers, it has been criticised for not considering other attachments developed around the same time (e.g., father; siblings) and their influences on a child’s development. A literal application of this theory may mean that a child who has grown up without competent care of their mother (e.g., due to death or lack of competence) is expected to develop various problems in their lives. However, placing too much emphasis on the role of attachment in earlier relationships may lead to a lack of consideration of many other factors that can influence an individual’s development and learning throughout the lifespan.

In sum, children are unlikely to develop normally if they never have the opportunity to form an attachment or if their first relationships in life are repeatedly severed. By contrast, a secure attachment during infancy has many positive implications for intellectual, social and emotional development. Yet you must avoid concluding that infants who are securely attached to their caregivers are forever blessed – or that infants who are insecurely attached to their caregivers are doomed.

First, affectionate ties to another parent, siblings or grandparents can compensate for insecure parent-infant relationships (Kochanska & Kim, 2013). Second, attachment quality changes, and early attachments may have no long-term consequences if they change later – if stressful life events such as divorce and illness convert secure attachments into insecure ones, or if positive life changes make insecure attachments more secure (Beijersbergen, Juffer, Bakermans-Kranenburg, & van IJzendoorn, 2012; Weinfield, Sroufe, & Egeland, 2000). Internal working models are just that – working models are subject to revision based on later social experiences (Sroufe, Egeland, Carlson, & Collins, 2005).

Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 571

Case Study

Heather describes a difficult attachment history to her counsellor. Her mother suffered from poorly managed bipolar disorder and would swing from being affectionate and loving towards Heather to subjecting her to frightening outbursts of rage culminating in verbal and physical abuse.

Heather’s adult interpersonal relationships are characterised by chaos and high emotions. She tends to fall in love and become attached to a partner very quickly, experiencing strong feelings of jealousy and anger when she feels rejected or feels her partner pulling away. She will then desperately seek reassurance and validation from her partner. Heather tells the counsellor that many of her past relationships have ended after a few months, with one partner telling her that she was too ‘needy’.

Heather’s counsellor understands attachment theory well and considers that Heather may have an insecure attachment style formed as a way of coping with her childhood experiences. She explains to Heather that we are all biologically designed to seek close connections with people. However, when early connections with caregivers are experienced as traumatic or inconsistent, children develop coping methods that set up unhelpful patterns of relating to others when they are adults.

The counsellor explains that Heather’s behaviour with partners is a way of dealing with her anxiety and fear about getting close to people (or attachments). She also highlights the effects of her behaviour on partners and how that may draw them towards doing the very thing that Heather fears – leaving her.

Heather feels relieved that the problems she is experiencing are not because of something fundamentally wrong with her but because her childhood experiences have resulted in her reacting in problematic ways in close relationships. The counsellor uses the counselling relationship to model a way of experiencing a ‘safe’ interpersonal relationship. She also teaches Heather techniques and strategies to self-manage the intense fear and anxiety she experiences in relationships rather than constantly looking to partners to reassure and soothe her.

Additionally, Bowlby’s findings may not be generalisable to other socio-cultural contexts in which parenting practices differ, and the care of children may be the active responsibility of multiple persons (Sigelman et al., 2019). As such, counsellors must be aware of the limitations of attachment theory and remember that many people thrive and develop great capacities despite adverse childhood experiences. People can and do learn new social skills and attitudes in later interactions with others, not only with parents.

What Is Your Attachment Style?

Knowing whether we are secure, anxious or avoidant in our attachment patterns gives us a vocabulary with which to get on top of some very tricky dynamics and helps us grow.

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While Freud and Erikson focused on emotional, psychological, and social development, Piaget was concerned with the way the capacity for thought differed at various stages of development. Piaget revolutionised the way we look at child development by proposing that children think differently to adults, and by recognising that children actively construct their knowledge, contributing to their own development through manipulation and exploration (Berk, 2014):

“What does it mean to ‘actively construct’ knowledge? Imagine that you and a friend have driven to a new restaurant in a neighboring town. A month later, you want to eat there again, so you decide to drive back. If you were the driver the first time, you’ll have an easier time remembering how to go than if you had been the passenger – because you actively constructed your knowledge of how to get there by doing the driving.”
Sigelman et al., 2011, p. 125

Piaget believed that children’s cognitive abilities develop as they adjust to meet environmental demands, an inborn tendency known as adaptation (Sigelman et al., 2019). Within adaptation are two complementary processes: assimilation and accommodation.

Assimilation refers to the processing of new information by applying what is already ‘known’ (whether or not this leads to accurate understanding), whereas accommodation is the modification of what is already known in order to better fit with new experiences.

For example, imagine Vanitha is learning to operate a smartphone for the first time. She is adapting to the demand for smartphone use in the modern world. Through assimilation, she is able to recognise the symbol for making a call, because it is similar to the ‘call’ button on her previous mobile. However, she needs to accommodate her understanding of how to enter a phone number because there are no physical number buttons on her new phone.

As we encounter new experiences that are inconsistent with what we already know, Piaget suggested that we engage in both assimilation and accommodation to resolve these ‘mental conflicts’ in order to achieve a stable state of ‘equilibrium’ – when what we know is consistent with our experience with the external world.

Piaget’s Schema: Accommodation and Assimilation of New Information

The following video describes Piaget's theory of how a schema is a cognitive framework or concept that helps organise and interpret information. Jean Piaget, who coined the term, argued that we construct our experiences into schemata so we can make sense of the world.

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Piaget also proposed four stages of cognitive development, which describe cognitive changes – through assimilation and accommodation – from childhood to adolescence:

Stage (age range) Description
Sensorimotor (Birth – 2 years) Infants use their senses and motor actions to explore and understand the world. At the start they have only innate reflexes, but they develop increasingly ‘intelligent’ actions. By the end, they are capable of symbolic thought using images or words and can therefore mentally plan solutions to problems.
Preoperational (2 – 7 years) Preschoolers use their capacity for symbolic thought to develop language, engage in pretend play and solve problems. But their thinking is not yet logical; they are egocentric (unable to take others’ perspectives) and are easily fooled by perceptions, failing ‘conservation’ problems because they cannot rely on logical operations.
Concrete operational (7 – 11 years) School-age children acquire concrete logical operations that allow them to mentally classify, add and otherwise act on concrete objects in their heads. They can solve practical, real-world problems through a trial-and-error approach but have difficulty with hypothetical and abstract problems.
Formal operational (11 years on) Adolescents can think about abstract concepts and purely hypothetical possibilities and can trace the long-range consequences of possible actions. With age and experience, they can form hypotheses and systematically test them using the scientific method.

Adapted from Sigelman et al., 2019, pp. 73-74

It is important to note that the age range associated with each stage is not definite, as Piaget believed that children’s cognitive development stage is more associated with their reasoning instead of age (Sigelman et al.). Whilst Piaget thought all children go through these stages, he acknowledged that they did so at varying speeds; some children may be faster than others. Piaget’s theory was one of the most influential in exploring human cognitive development.

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Take a moment to reflect upon Piaget’s stages of cognitive development.

If you have had experience raising children can you relate to the periods of development Piaget proposed?

Contributions and Limitations in Counselling

According to Berk (2014), Piaget believed that children develop steadily and gradually throughout these stages and that the experiences in one stage form the foundation for movement to the next. As a stage theorist, Piaget believed that everyone must pass through each stage before starting the next one. This implies that older children and even adults may process information in ways that are characteristic of younger children if they have not successfully completed a particular stage. This could lead to illogical thinking, faulty beliefs, egocentric interpretation of events, and cognitive errors (Sigelman et al., 2019).

Piaget’s theory can help counsellors to understand that clients of different ages and stages think in qualitatively different ways. Although you will not often apply Piaget’s cognitive theory in your counselling practice unless you go on to specialise in working with children or adolescents, it is important to remember that adults may not reach the formal operational stage and may effectively be operating cognitively at an earlier stage. It can be helpful to keep this in mind as we tailor our communication and counselling strategies to each client’s individual needs and level of cognitive functioning (Capuzzi, Stauffer, & O’Neil, 2016). Counsellors may also use Piaget’s theory to support and educate parents in regard to age-appropriate parenting and understanding their children’s thinking.

Let’s look at a case example.

Case Study

Mel’s new client is a 17-year-old father-to-be, Carlos. Carlos had been sexually active since high school and has had unprotected sex with a number of partners. Carlos tells Mel that he was never concerned about getting anyone pregnant or getting sexually transmitted diseases before this, and things had been fine all these times with other girls. He was in disbelief when one of his sexual partners told him that she was pregnant. Carlos feels very stressed, as he is not ready to be a father yet.

It appears to Mel that Carlos had not considered the potential consequences of his behaviour. Mel recognises that such thought is associated with formal operational thinking in Piaget’s terms. She wonders if Carlos has not reached this stage, at least in this area of his life. Mel uses her understanding of learning theories to develop an approach to helping Carlos by guiding him through thinking about the potential consequences of his actions in different areas of his life. She also regularly checks in to confirm that Carlos understands important considerations.

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Reading H: Piaget’s Theory demonstrates how Piaget’s theory has been incorporated, along with other theories, into a counselling model: developmental counselling and therapy (DCT).

Reflect

As mentioned, contemporary approaches to counselling are often eclectic and incorporate concepts from multiple disciplines or theories. Now that you have read Reading H consider the following:

Counsellors who use this model assess the cognitive-emotional developmental style (loosely based on Piaget’s four stages) that a client demonstrates and use this as an indication of how well they are able to process and consider their issues and circumstances. The aim is to match the counsellor’s communication and techniques to the style that the client is primarily using.

What do you think of this counselling model? Why do you think counsellors should match their approach to the client’s cognitive-emotional style?

Piaget’s theory has had a substantial influence on the field of developmental psychology, as well as education, and has convinced many of the relevance of understanding cognitive development (Berk, 2014). In particular, his theory challenged the idea that children are merely ‘immature’ versions of adults by demonstrating that children’s understanding of the world is fundamentally different from that of adults and that young children’s thinking is different to that of older children (Lilienfeld et al., 2019). Piaget’s contention that children are active learners also fostered the recognition that cognitive development is not a passive process (you may remember activity versus passivity as one of the aspects that developmental theories differ on).

However, Piaget’s theory is not without its limitations. Some of the most common criticisms levelled at Piaget are (Berk, 2014; Sigelman et al., 2019):

  • That he underestimated the abilities of infants and young children.
  • That performance on many of Piaget’s tasks can be improved with training and adult teaching, rather than learning by discovery, as he suggested.
  • Performance may not be the best measure of cognitive development. Some children in Piaget’s research may have been competent but simply not demonstrated this during his tests.
  • As a stage theorist, Piaget is challenged by subsequent research that undermines the contention that cognitive development should be described in stages, particularly when changes in development are often subtle, lengthy, and not abrupt.
  • Like Freud’s and Erikson’s, Piaget’s theory describes development but does not provide a clear explanation for how it comes about. However, he did recognise that cognitive development involves an interaction between nature (the innate tendency of adaptation) and nurture (adapting to the demands of the environment).
  • Piaget gave limited consideration to social influences (e.g., the impact of social interaction with adults on children’s cognitive development) and how cognitive processes may differ by culture. Hence his theory may not be generalisable across cultures. (In further learning, you will explore another cognitive theory, Vygotsky’s sociocultural theory, which specifically considers social and cultural influences on learning).
Piaget's Theory of Cognitive Development

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Humanistic psychology is “a theoretical perspective that emphasises the innate goodness of people and a tendency toward growth and self-determination as motivating forces for cognition and behaviour” (Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 68). In contrast to two major fields of psychology at the time – psychoanalytic and behaviourist – humanistic psychology focusses on the human capacity for creativity, growth, and choice. From this perspective, development is not dominated by unconscious forces. Rather, individuals have a natural tendency to self-actualise (fulfil their potential), provided they have an environment conducive to growth. You will be learning more about this when we look at the person-centred approach to counselling later in your diploma. For now, we will focus on one particular concept that emerged in early humanistic theory: Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

Unlike the previous theories outlined in this module, Maslow’s hierarchy of needs focuses more on human motivation than human development.

“Imagine that you have to miss lunch because you don’t have time to stop and eat. On this particular day, you have a paper to write, an exam to study for, and a long list of algebra problems to finish. As you sit down to study, you find that several different motives are all trying to direct your behavior at the same time. You need to study, you are hungry, you are sleepy because you did not sleep well last night, and you really want to go to the movies with your friends.

Which of these motives will win? What will your first course of action be in this situation? Will you eat, study, go to the movies, or fall asleep?

We often find ourselves pulled in different directions by our motives. Are some types of motives inherently stronger than others? Perhaps.”
Pastorino & Doyle-Portillo, 2013, p. 287

According to Maslow, human thought and behaviours are driven by five ascending levels of need, in which lower needs must be satisfied reasonably well before the higher needs:

  1. Physiological needs – the fundamental biological needs required for survival, including food, drink, oxygen, sleep, shelter and sex.
  2. Safety needs – the need for a secure and stable environment.
  3. Belonging and love needs – the need for close relationships and being part of groups such as community, family, and peers.
  4. Esteem needs – the need for self-respect through a sense of competence and individual achievement and the need for respect from others via appreciation, status or fame.
  5. Self-actualisation needs – the need to fully achieve one’s talents, capabilities and potential.
Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 69

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is usually presented in a pyramid, as in the following figure:

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs

Adapted from Duchesne et al., 2013, as cited in Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 69

As you can see, there are two main types of needs: basic needs and growth needs. Basic needs comprise of both physiological and psychological (safety, belonging and love, and esteem) needs that, when unmet, cause unpleasant states of deficiency; as such, they are also referred to as deficiency needs (Sigelman et al., 2019). Maslow believed that people are driven (i.e., motivated) to behave or think in ways that help them reduce such deficits when they are experienced. A simple example is that if you are hungry while reading this module, you will most likely struggle to continue reading and will feel motivated to look for food to satisfy your hunger. Furthermore, failure to meet basic needs could lead to compromised health. Deprivation of physiological needs, for example, may lead to disease and death, while deprivation of psychological needs can have detrimental effects on mental well-being (Sigelman et al.).

Growth needs (or being needs), on the other hand, are not necessary for survival but are associated with life satisfaction. According to Maslow, meeting basic needs is not enough to feel satisfied – individuals are motivated to strive for self-actualisation (Sigelman et al., 2019). A self-actualised person is described as “creative, spontaneous, and accepting of themselves and others. They are also self-confident but not self-centred” (Lilienfeld et al., 2019, p. 588). Proposed examples of self-actualisation persons, as per Maslow’s standard, include Abraham Lincoln, Helen Keller, and Mahatma Gandhi. However, Maslow believed that self-actualisation is rarely achieved:

“…achievement of growth needs can be hindered by becoming ‘stuck’ on the basic physiological and psychological needs due to factors such as the immediacy of these needs, bad habits (choosing a poor diet, addictions), influence by others (peer pressure), social responsibility (societal priorities, family responsibilities), fixation on a level of need due to deprivation at an earlier stage of life (those who grew up in a harsh family environment may crave belonging throughout their life), or inner deficiencies that can prevent self-awareness (defensiveness, repression).”
Sigelman et al., 2019, p. 70
Reflect

Reflect upon Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. Do you think these reflect a universal hierarchy of needs and motivations? Why or why not?

Contributions And Limitations in Counselling

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs can help counsellors recognise the range of needs that a client may have and which may not be adequately addressed. Once identified, these can guide the counselling strategy. Based on this hierarchy, unmet lower needs should be addressed first, which might involve referring clients to an appropriate service that offers assistance for that level of need. For instance, if the client is homeless and unemployed (unmet physiological and safety needs), they will not likely have sufficient resources to address self-esteem issues. The counsellor can support them to meet these needs and help stabilise by referring the client to services such as homelessness and employment services.

Similarly, a woman in a violent relationship will generally need assistance to address safety and security needs before working on other issues. Let’s look at an example of how a counsellor might use Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to understand a child’s school refusal behaviour.

Case Study

Joshua is sent to see a counsellor because he refuses to attend school. The counsellor applies Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and thinks that such behaviour may have originated from unmet needs in Joshua. The counsellor asks Joshua (and his parents) about what has been happening at home or school in these weeks to identify possible unmet needs contributing to Joshua’s school refusal.

It turns out that Joshua has been bullied by an older boy at school (unmet safety needs), and none of his friends helped him, which left him feeling isolated and lonely (unmet belonging and love needs). Joshua also mentions that his mother has started a new job, and he didn’t get enough breakfast in the rush of the new morning routine. As a result, he was feeling hungry (unmet physiological needs) and struggled to concentrate in class. He then got into trouble for not completing his homework, causing him to feel incompetent (unmet esteem needs).

Now that the counsellor understands Joshua’s unmet needs, he can work with Joshua on strategies to address these needs.

Adapted from Sigelman et al., 2019, pp. 70-71

From a humanistic perspective, Maslow’s hierarchy of needs sheds light on what might be important for a person’s well-being rather than on what makes people psychologically unwell (Sigelman et al., 2019). His model helps conceptualise different levels of need that drive behaviour and their relationships with each other. Counsellors who use Maslow’s hierarchy of needs actively look for strengths that will help clients thrive and believe in clients' capacities to make positive choices. This is often demonstrated through viewing the client as the ‘expert’ and the person who is primarily responsible for making positive changes (in contrast to the counsellor as the ‘expert’ who advises their clients what to do). This forms the central tenet of the person-centred approach that is widely applied in counselling today, as well as being influential in post-modern approaches to counselling (Corey, 2017).

However, as Sigelman and colleagues (2019) note, a major limitation of Maslow’s theory is the rigid sequence of needs. In reality, people may not strive to meet their basic needs in such order. For instance, volunteer firefighters override their safety needs to help others, while Nevid (2013) gives the example of an artist who may ignore the need for food and nourishment for days to complete a project. It may also be difficult to determine what need a particular behaviour is fulfilling, as it is possible that one behaviour could fulfil several needs and vice versa. Moreover, the universality of Maslow’s theory is questionable, as needs and life satisfaction are conceptualised differently across cultures (Sigelman et al.). With these in mind, counsellors must be cautious when using Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and not assume that clients seek to meet only these needs or rigidly apply this model without recognising individual and cultural variations.

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We have explored four influential developmental theories in this section: Freud’s psychoanalytic theory, Erikson’s psychosocial stages, Piaget’s cognitive developmental model (specifically his stages of development), and Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. For each theory, we explored its ideas about the factors that influence development and behaviour. We also discussed each theory’s contributions as well as limitations, including in the counselling context. With these in mind, counsellors need to continuously review their theoretical framework and extend their knowledge about human development. We turn to this topic next.

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